Discover your gifts together
Take the assessment each, compare your gifts, and walk a shared set of tools — pre-courtship, premarital, and marriage-review — built on the household framework. The full teaching lives in The Household; here are the instruments for your relationship.
Instruments for your marriage or courtship
You each keep your own free account; the Family subscription ($19.95/month) lets you compare your gifts and carries the couples templates — from the pre-courtship self-assessment through the marriage annual review.
See your gifts side by side
Each of you takes the assessment free; the Family subscription lets you compare your gifts — by consent — to serve and pray for one another.
Pre-Courtship Self-Assessment
Walk with the Lord, character, identity and vocation, readiness — the honest self-assessment before a courtship begins.
Courtship Conversation Guide
The structured conversation for two families — mutual introduction, the honest conversations, and going forward.
Premarital Preparation Workbook
Eight sessions — the theology of marriage, headship and submission, money, communication, intimacy, children, family, and the first year.
Marriage Annual Review
Worship, the past year, honest confession, forgiveness and re-commitment, and the year ahead — a yearly rhythm for your marriage.
Restoring a Broken Marriage
The step-by-step protocol — acknowledgement, commitment, the honest conversation, re-commitment, and the walking out.
The Restoration Conversation
One quarrel, not a whole marriage. A guided template you each prepare alone, then work through together in nine rounds. Free to everyone. Not for abuse, violence or any crime.
The teaching lives in The Household
The marriage and courtship teaching behind these tools is part of Document 7, The Christian Household — free to read in full. Two chapters are written directly for couples: